How to Build an Effective Youth Ministry Team
Val Stauffer | ActuallyFundamentals #002
Val Stauffer has led the Next Gen ministry at her church for over three years, building and equipping the volunteer leader team that runs nearly every part of her weekly service. Her team is equipped to the point that youth group carries on without a hitch when she is away, which makes her the right voice on what it takes to build a team that lasts.
3 Fundamentals from This Episode
- 1) Know your weaknesses as a leader so you can recruit and empower people who are strong exactly where you are not.
- 2) Vet every potential team member with the 6 Cs: Christian, Character, Competency, Chemistry, Culture, and Called.
- 3) The real mark of great leadership is how well your ministry runs without you… delegate until it does.
Show Notes
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0:13 — Who Val Stauffer is and why she’s the right voice on team building.
- Val has led the Next Gen ministry at her church for between three and four years.
- Her leader team runs nearly every part of the weekly service, so youth group continues even when she’s on vacation.
0:25 — Building a team starts with knowing yourself as a leader.
- Know what you are strong in as a leader, then find people who complement what you are not good at — if you’re highly administrative, recruit people who are great relationally, and vice versa.
- The church is full of different kinds of people with different gifts; a good team is assembled from that variety on purpose.
- Jesus recruited as He was doing ministry — as you go about your responsibilities, you’ll meet the right people for your team.
2:14 — The 6 Cs for deciding if someone belongs on your team.
- Christian: do they love Jesus in and out of the church? Checking their social media is a practical way to see.
- Character: are they trustworthy and honorable? Val’s ministry runs background checks and calls three references.
- Competency: can they actually do what the role requires? If they can’t sing, they shouldn’t be on the music team.
- Chemistry: do they fit in with the environment your current team has set?
- Culture: do they embody the mission — for Val’s ministry, “to know God and make God known”?
- Called: do they want to be there? Watch their expressions and body language when you describe the role.
4:48 — Equipping leaders: Moses, Jethro, and purposeful delegation.
- In Exodus, Jethro showed Moses that while some things were his alone to do, there were real opportunities to bring other people into what God was doing.
- Some things can’t be fully delegated — the weekly message and crisis care stay largely with the pastor — but much of the rest can.
- “God honors purposeful delegation.” Val has her team take The Working Genius assessment to find each person’s gifting.
- Example: an admin-gifted leader owns the entire service flow on Wednesday nights so Val is free to be present and pastor students and leaders.
8:19 — Investing in people is what retains them.
- Five levels of leadership: at baseline, people follow you because of your title; relationships are what create longevity.
- Not investing in people is the biggest threat to retention, and it creates a bad culture on your team.
- Celebrate unseen work — Val opens Wednesday nights with team shout-outs for the people whose serving nobody notices.
- Develop “thick skin and a soft heart”: when someone cancels last minute or disappoints you, your response shows whether you value them as a person or just what they do for you.
- When a leader’s daughter was hospitalized, Val visited them instead of counting absences — the leader came back, and her daughter started serving in the ministry too.
13:10 — Atomic Habit: the 15-minute pre-service leader huddle.
- Every week, Val meets with her leadership team 15 minutes before doors open, walks through the service order, and delegates responsibility for each part.
- She’s not doing the welcome, the game, or worship — leaders and students run those.
- Because everyone has had the chance to run everything, the team isn’t anxious when she’s gone.
14:21 — Biblical Final Charge: Matthew 4:18-20.
- Jesus set the standard for leadership: help people follow Him, and help them discover and use their giftings for the sake of the gospel.
- “We don’t just give them responsibility for anything. We’re doing it so that the mission of Jesus can be accomplished.”
Scripture from this Episode
“As Jesus was walking beside the Sea of Galilee, he saw two brothers, Simon called Peter and his brother Andrew. They were casting a net into the lake, for they were fishermen. ‘Come, follow me,’ Jesus said, ‘and I will send you out to fish for people.’ At once they left their nets and followed him.”
-Matthew 4:18-20
A Resource from Our Guest
The 6 Types of Working Genius by Patrick Lencioni — the assessment Val uses to find each leader’s gifting.
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